从事业务的他，每天为了养家东奔西跑，当不景气逐渐笼罩过来时，他更加快了脚步，深恐哪一天业绩挂零，总经理要他走。

就在和他分享如何苦中作乐，如何寻找工作意义时，我在纸上写了“生存、生活、生命”，并问他：“你觉得自己生活在哪个层次比较多？”

他年近四十，算是豁达，可是当压力来时，往往一头就钻进牛角尖了。

思索了半响，他缓缓地说：“在家里，我和家人好像多半处于生存的层次，就是吃、睡、看电视；和同事多一点点生活层次，还能聊聊；至于生命层次，我不太懂，这个很重要吗？”

他为了养家糊口，可能是造成他不快乐的原因。

我再问他：“当孩子们从外回家，通常你会怎么做？”“我会说：回来了。要不就是看他一眼，再继续看电视。”

我问：“这是哪个层次？”他干脆地回答：“生存。”我说：“所以，缺少了生活层次的互动学习，也缺少了生命层次的关怀分享……”

“啊！”他恍然大悟，“我知道了，原来我和客户在一起时，只停留在生存层次的赚钱目的，难怪有压力！”

“对！”我鼓励他，“如果不是只为了生存而赚钱，还能为了生活而成长，为了生命而乐于分享，日子就会好过得多了。”

He, who is engaged in business, runs around every day to support his family. When the recession gradually envelops him, he accelerates his pace even more, fearing that one day his performance will be zero, and the general manager wants him to leave.

When I was sharing with him how to enjoy life in pain and how to find meaning in work, I wrote "survival, life, life" on paper and asked him, "What level do you think you live at more

He is almost forty years old and can be considered open-minded, but when pressure comes, he often gets into the corner of the ox with one head.

After pondering for a while, he slowly said, "At home, my family and I seem to be mostly at the level of survival, such as eating, sleeping, and watching TV. We can have a little more life level with our colleagues and chat. As for life level, I don't quite understand. Is this important

He may be the cause of his unhappiness in order to support his family.

I asked him again, "What do you usually do when the children come home from outside

I asked, "What level is this?" He simply replied, "Survival." I said, "So, there is a lack of interactive learning at the life level, as well as a lack of caring and sharing at the life level

Ah! "He suddenly realized," I know. When I was with clients, I only focused on making money at the survival level. No wonder there was pressure

That's right! "I encouraged him," If we weren't just making money for survival, but also growing for life, and being willing to share for life, life would be much easier